TEENAGE LIFE...

This teenage life which is between 13 to 19 is another stage in life...where students are not treated either as kids or elders. Students are classified as lazy, easy-going, always on-tips, clever, intelligent, talkative ,etc. in this age. Parents and teachers take utmost care for these students because the recent research have shown that this age is so dangerous in the present day scenario. There will be lots of mental disturbances, they will be not in a position to decide which is right or wrong. Some students will have lots of pressure from their parents to get good marks. But sometimes the atmosphere, the place they study, the peer group they have may influence them a lot. But they should have the capacity to tackle all kinds of people, circumstances, their studies which are very much important for their future. So, my view is, if students listen to their parents in this age, they will and they can go in a very good path where they find many good solutions for their improper questions, disturbed mind and imaginative thoughts. They need to share everything with their parents either good or bad. They listen to us and tell us the right path. If we do so our life will be filled with flying colors. Some students feel why we should listen to parents, its waste of our time, they ruin our happiness and many things. They actually doesn't have any intention to ruin your life..they struggle to make you go in righteous path and make your life more beautiful than you have ever imagined. Parents are very much experienced than us. They know very well what is good and what is bad. Even though students feel their words are boring..they should first listen to them...and should think over and over till they get a clarity. Parents just show the righteous way .It is the students who should make their life precious on their own. It is not that parents leave them after showing the way....they just watch how we go on in life and try to explain when we are wrong...but they do not ruin our happiness just for their own greediness. We also find some parents who do not care their children. They force students for getting good marks, they do not understand their feelings and simply they ignore them. If those students cannot share anything with their parents...they should find out a way where they can share with a person whom they trust a lot...But you should not hide your inner feelings. You should try to express because when we share or sorrows it gets halved and when we share our happiness it gets doubled. So not only teenagers, every person should share their feelings with any one person whom they trust a lot and who understands them. Some parents are illiterates too. In such case, it is the responsibility of the students to try educating their parents where they find a lots of happiness and such students will get used to think in a independent way and try solving problems in a matured way. It doesn't mean that teenagers are so impatient, useless or something else, because we find many news items in the newspaper that a teenager has achieved so and so and received a prestigious award. Like wise all students have interest in different fields. It is upto them whether they understand them and go in which field they are interested in and also it is also depends on the duty of the parents to check out their children and tell them which is good or bad because parents are their first gurus in their life. Even though they are teenagers by age, they are always kids to their parents.